Jesus there’s been a huge difference from when I turned 27. Even from when I turned 26. At least when I turned 27, I knew I was heading on a completely new path than the one I was currently on.
But still, I could have never predicted that I would be working for myself full-time. Making a livable income with the reassurance that I could only go up. Traveling and living in some of the most beautiful places in the world. Pinch me.
This dream life had always been dream. Now at 28, it’s finally happening and some times my jaw is on the floor. This is MY LIFE! It’s so incredible and I’ve never ever been happier.
If anything, I’m still adjusting to my newfound happiness, and I’ve only just walked through the door of my new life. Everything is new, and there’s so much to explore. But it’s so refereshing knowing I’ll never go back. I’m confident in who I am now. It’s so different from what I did before, form how so many other people live their lfie. ANd I’m so happy I’ve made it work for me.
Things I’ve learned at 28.
You have to set the parameters for how other people treat you. Not everyone will treat you kindly or with the respect you deserve. Let them know what your boundrary is and if they cross it haphazardly, then cut them loose.
In addition: how other people treat you has nothing to do with you. This is the best thing that has become ingrained in my psyche. I used to think that if I was prettier, smiled more, or made myself into the perfect specimen, then I would get the respect I deserve. That’s not how it works. Some people are just shit to others. You cannot make them treat you nicer, primp yourself, or make yourself fit to be worthy of good treatment. Let that shit go and let other people act accordingly.
Kindness is the best currency we have. It costs nothing to be kind.
It’s a blessing to struggle to carry your groceries.
Life can always get better. With a little bit of finesse.
Make friends wherever you go. There are some really beautiful people in this world.
You can always eat healthier, work out more, and treat yourself better. Do all of this in-between bites of pizza.
It’s okay to switch lanes. You won’t have lost all your life experience. Instead, you get to start a whole new journey. You might feel like a child again, which can be an asset. Learn something new, I kind of think that’s what we’re supposed to be doing with life. Choosing the adventure.
Somedays, you go a little bit crazy. Remember that it’s only temporary, and that you only have to exist within today. Do whatever you need to do to ground yourself.